It’s your first date; the person is good looking, the conversation didn’t lack substance, the place you two went was great, you had a perfectly decent time hanging out and grabbing drinks. But at the end you are feeling more “Meh” than “wow”
The next day, your date asks you out for another date-and you wonder if it would just be a waste of your time.
A first date is like a job interview or a test and some people just don’t test well. Here are a few reason you should say YES to a second date.
Your date seems to fulfill a lot on your “needs” list, not just your “wants” list
Wants: Witty, exciting, Hot, Fun etc.…
Needs: Respects you, communicates, is consistent, shares your core values etc…
You may not have been at your best
Yeah perhaps the reason the date was “Meh” was because of… Dare I say YOU!
You’ll have a chance to learn more
The nerves have settled after the first date and now both involved are over the awkwardness of the first meet and are able to relax and open more about them selves
Go ahead and say yes, the worst, you cut it short and lose their number
This has been The Truth