Hey look at this, our first guy emailed in for advice, Mark wants to know “is she flirting or being friendly?”
Oh man this is a tough one but let’s look at it! You like a girl and think she’s flirting with you, you make a move, and then boom shot down. This leaves you wondering “What went wrong”. Simple, you misread the signs.
To be fair it isn’t your fault, well not all your fault. Woman are complex. I have found that a woman can and probably will flirt with you even if she isn’t interested, Why? Because flirting is fun and all guys and gals are guilty of uninterested flirting!
So how do you know if she is interested, again it comes back to the signs!
1) Is she touching you? If she likes you, initiate loads of physical contact while you’re chatting. Look out for indications like stroking your arm or “accidentally” brushing up against you.
2) She is interested in learning about you: The same way you won’t bother finding out more about someone you’re not interested in, women don’t bother seeking more information if they aren’t interested romantically.
3) She lets you know that she’s single. She will make it a point to let you know she’s single if she wants you to initiate something. For example, she might tell a story about her ex, or casually mention she isn’t currently attached to anyone.
Hopefully this has shined some light on the complexity of this situation for you.
This has been The Truth